Thursday, 20 September 2012

A Passionate Speech About Feminism

This speech by Isabel Allende is one of the most outstanding speeches about change and the role of women in that change process I have ever heard,

Filmed at TED in 2007 but is a relevant today as it was then...

          and sadly I suspect I will be saying the same thing in 10 years time




Novelist Isabel Allende writes stories of passion. Her novels and memoirs, including The House of the Spirits and Eva Luna, tell the stories of women and men who live with passionate commitment -- to love, to their world, to an ideal.

Monday, 17 September 2012

Join the GenderSpeaker Mission

I came across a web site a week ago and was inspired to commit to a huge vision which I have called GenderSpeaker with a mission is to: 

To inspire 1,000,.000 people to speakOUT about Gender Equality and Gender Diversity

Equalities is not a priority for the current UK government and whist the Equality Act 2010 is now law, it was not this governments law. If we want to see real change we have to change attitudes and judging by the huge opposition being mounted against equal marriage, that is not going to happen unless we all get involved. 
So what I am asking people to do is speakOUT about Gender Equality and Gender Diversity in any way you can.  I have set up this blog and some Facebook presence where you can comment but the central site is The GenderSpeaker network site which provides a great way to participate with very little effort. 

Please click on the link above to go to the site, sign in, create a brief profile add a picture and:
  1. Write a personal blog
  2. Update your status to support the vision
  3. Start a discussion
  4. Add a comment 
  5. Record a video and upload or link it, or link a video you like
  6. Make a speech and tell us about it
  7. Share or like posts and comments on the site. 
  8. Write about gender equality on you own blog and share it on the site
  9. In fact anything you can do to speakOUT about Gender Equality and Gender Diversity
Remember that Gender Equality is a huge topic and includes issues about sexuality and gender identity as well. When someone is bullied for being too camp or too butch, that is denying them the right to be themselves. It makes it difficult for people to follow the career they love because they are the "wrong gender."   
I recently saw this quote:
the 22-cent “pay gap” is neither a result of gender bias nor workplace discrimination. It can be explained entirely by the fact that women as a group tend to make certain very logical and legitimate employment-related choices which, while affording them a number of benefits that they value highly, tend to suppress incomes Male Matters USA
What this article way saying was that women earn less because they choose work more suited to women which pays less. In fact women are socialised into expecting to work in female suitable work and to make caring and reproduction important. 
The choices we make are not made entirely free from bias. More importantly the recruiters are already biased in the same way and that unconscious bias means that women are encouraged away from higher paid jobs. If a man works long hours he is applauded, where a woman will be criticised. If a woman negotiates hard and is money orientated she will be viewed as unfriendly and selfish - where a man is considered dynamic and successful. 
If men or women chose work considered more suitable for the "opposite sex" they are often subjected to discrimination and harassment. My daughter wanted to work in construction but was openly discriminated against because there was too big a risk of sexual harassment.
You can't separate all these gender and sexuality issues, they are all part of a long standing belief in a clear and separate binary of men and women and that they should be treated differently.  Because men dominate the public space that generally means that women and women's work is considered less valuable and women or any one expressing femininity is treated unfairly.  
Now you may not agree with my comment - Great.  Please come to the site and tell us why. I encourage disagreement because that encourages discussion and challenges our thinking which will bring about changes in attitudes. Not speaking about it means that the current unfairness will continue.
I look forward to welcoming you to GenderSpeaker soon.